Ultimately, it is for you decide if you can accept the new-found identity of your partner and live with them. I would really love the opportunity to speak with you about this. He said he also gets similar feelings for girls. Anonymous August 05, at I told my 11 year-old daughter that her dad is gay when she spent a couple of weeks with him and his boyfriend. Like many others, this site has been so helpful to me.
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I have on numerous occasions caught him looking at gay porn sites for the purpose of masterbation. Don't ever "feel stupid"; you were simply duped by a facile liar. I think about my 21 year relationship 13 of it married every day. Be honest because lying only brings doubts and insecurities in a relationship. The old boyfriend felt real, and the loss of a friend was real.
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I came across your blog looking for sites that could help me overcome the emotional impact of confirming that my ex-husbandd was gay since we got married 15 years. I am ready to separate now, but I want to be clear about what that will mean to our children and history 14 years. I spent over a year on my own with my girls, building a life. This isn't easy, but you'll learn many valuable lessons in the process and really will be better off in the long run. Your email address will not be published.
In fact, he is still somewhat resentful that I ended the marriage because he was willing to continue to live the lie he had created. Should they stay together, or should they separate? What do I say when people ask why we are getting divorced knowing it will get to his district? The main causes of bisexuality can be social factors, sex drive, prenatal hormones, brain structure, and chromosomes. He was the love of my life.